Ask Andrea: Relationships
I don’t have good relationships and often feel misunderstood. Can energy healing help with that?
Yes, because energy healing helps you know yourself at a deep level and realize that happiness begins and ends with you. If your state of being is one of feeling unfulfilled and misunderstood, energy healing methods will help you understand that you must be happy with your relationship with yourself and understand yourself before you will be able to receive and enjoy happiness and understanding from others. There are volumes written about relationships and understanding them and many offer some good advice, but I have found that the energetic approach is the only one that offers true, lasting and deep relationship help.
We begin with how you relate to yourself and go from there. The anatomy of relationships and communication is based on an honest exchange of feelings, ideas and goals and this creates love, vulnerability and authenticity. All of this takes place in the space between you and others but your experience begins with you. Self inquiry helps with questions like, “What is my state of being right now?” “How do I misunderstand myself?” “How can I make my relationship with myself better?” “Am I putting my authentic self into my relationship?”
In energy healing, we begin by releasing any negative thoughts or beliefs or misunderstandings about ourselves. We then use methods to begin to understand ourselves at a compassionate and loving level. Then our energetic communication (body language/intentions) becomes authentic and loving and compassionate. We have then taken responsibility for our part in all relationships we wish to have and they are fulfilling, meaningful and have deep purpose and gratitude. Please refer to my book, Light Through the Keyhole – The Power to Heal Life and Live Joy (pgs.138-152) for more learning and exercises for great relationships and communication.